Don’t worry, I won’t be writing some lengthy post about resolutions.
As I mentioned in my previous post, resolutions are not my ‘thing’. But hey, if it works for you, whatever floats your boat, man.
And I realise that I’ve also been a day late this year in posting this up. Well truth is, while I do feel somewhat ‘renewed’ by my goals, the changes I plan to make this year are gradual; it’s a slow (but sure) process. Maybe that’s why there was no immediate inspiration? (If that even makes sense… >< )
So far since then, I’ve been trying to evade ill thoughts towards others, and so far, I’ve been successful. Sure, I’ve found my mind wandering towards the danger zone a few times, but I just shook my head and thought of something else. And thank goodness, that seems to work so far for me.
I’ve also decided that I will try my best not to sweat the small stuff. I dunno if it’s just me being a virgo, but I admit that I do tend to over-react to things that, as I think about it later, turns out wasn’t such a big deal after all. ^^;; Perhaps while I’m on it, I should try to allow a little spontaneity into my life as well. While it DOES do good to plan stuff beforehand, some stuff just can’t be planned.
In other words, I think I’ll try to loosen up a little.
Also, I want to meet more people and socialize more. Doesn’t matter how, I just wanna get to know more people. It’s got to the point where I know that I do have a few close friends, but they’ve all gone their separate ways, and until I go out and make more friends and get to know others, I’ll probably eventually be left with no friends at all here.
Ah~ and this one, I’ve decided to change after hearing from many sources, both direct and indirect. This year, I will spend my money wisely. Not saying that I have a lot, rather, I’m saying that I will try not to be so obsessed with paying back my loans that I forget to spend my money on some ‘me time’.
Honestly, I’ve been so diligent on paying back my loans that I must admit that I’ve sort of lost the ‘fun’ in life, for the most part. That isn’t to say that I will start spending more.
Just saying that I’ll enjoy a bit more than I did last year. ;)
Of course, there are other little areas that I plan to better myself in too, but it’s the little things, and that I will not write here for fear of boring my poor readers to death. grrrrrr
Anyways, here’s wishing a
Happy New Year to everyone!!